LIFE

The word itself says it all,

It seems to be the whole world’s ball;

You can never predict what’s waiting for you the next moment,

Sometimes it looks as if it is a complete torment;

Happiness and sadness are the two pillars of life,

The former is for which we all strive;

Whenever we encounter a stream of doldrums,

We surrender to the life’s tantrums;

One should always remember, god watches it all,

He takes care of his every child’s pall;

If there is ever a moment of despair,

Follows bliss with all its flair;

Life is a roller coaster for every individual,

Justice in every form is life’s ritual;

A moment of joy and an instant of misery,

Is what makes life worth living and relishing;

So let’s get together and face it,

Life is what you create out of it.

POSITIVE ATTITUDE TOWARDS LIFE

Life- this is the most unpredictable word on earth. One can never guess what can happen to him in the next approaching minute. If this minute it is merry time, the next could throw you a mountain of sorrows. You can never predict what life contains for you in its bag full of surprises.

Should this reality forbid you from enjoying your life? Should you bar yourself from being delighted just because you are not sure for how much time will this feeling last? If you follow this approach towards life and wreck it, then believe me it’s not worth ruining your life as you have got just one life and you have the responsibility of making the best out of it.

What’s the solution to this problem then? Positive attitude towards life is your answer. If you commence with keeping a positive approach towards life, half of the problems are solved automatically. You need to see the positive aspect of every situation that comes in your way.

Positive thinking really assists in dealing with problems. Even facts tell us that cancer patients have recovered from their illness just with the power of positive thinking. People with positive approach towards life have a magnetic quality about them which attracts others to them and their company is liked and they are generally socially adored by masses.

Positive people also tend to maintain their relationships well as they ought to think from the other person’s point of view. They basically develop a feeling of empathy towards others which makes them a lovelier soul.

Just try to adapt this attitude towards your life and you’ll be happier person in a few days.

Always remember “everything happens for good”. You just need to find that “good” in everything.

TECHNOLOGY- A SLOW POISON

A gadget for every purpose, an appliance for every task, a vehicle for every road and a game for every mood. Doesn’t this phrase sound familiar to every one of us? Well, this is the truth of today’s world where technology has taken over the world downright.

We have started receiving everything at our doorstep lately which has in turn made our life sedentary. No doubt, technological advances have helped us tremendously but instead of treating it the way it should be, we have allowed it to conquer our world and rule over us.

We often forget the potential of the enormous machine that lies within us commonly called as human brain. No human made machine arising out of an idea from human brain should be allowed to take over it. The complete dependence on technology has let our brain to rust; remember the last time when you used your brain to solve an equation and not calculator, difficult one, right?

Talking in a nutshell, the complete discussion revolves around a single yet important point that is we should not surrender to technological advances.

It’s good to have an air conditioner, but don’t forget what summer is; it’s good to have a hot water bath in a spa; but don’t forget the joy of sunbathe at a beach.

Make machines your slave or let them rule you, the choice is yours.

ONLINE DATING IN INDIA

“World has gone flat, so people can plug in and play from anywhere in the world.”

This is a quote, often used to signify the significance of online gaming in the present scenario. But seldom was the philosopher aware of a new trend that emerged some time back, “online dating”, again proving that world is flat, so people can plug in and date from anywhere in the world.

Gone are the days when true love was crucial for dating somebody or when dating meant that he/she is your soul mate. In today’s diligent, taxing and monotonous life, suddenly everybody’s audacious and fun streak has emerged a bit too powerful. There is always a necessity of some “spice” in life and some “gossip” about your life that can be shown off. INTERNET, what else you need when all you have been looking for is in your pockets. Just plug in and enter into the whole new realm to put behind all your anxieties and apprehensions. And what better than interacting with somebody who feels the same and is also looking for some leisure time after a day jam packed with worries and exhaustion.

You start chatting and gradually commence spending most of the free time talking to your new “online friend”. This new friend is suddenly your refuge from the whole enchilada going around, he becomes the source of laughter for you, you can speak your heart out to him and in return you get precisely the same from other side. In no time, this “online friend” moves a level up in your life and whoa! You are in “love”.

This new relationship fills the void you had in your life and suddenly you start feeling complete. The love of your life or at least the “current love” is just a click away. You start getting addicted and life is swiftly beautiful now.

Some benefits of an online relationship are that it comes with no restrictions. Your partner is miles away from you and cannot witness what you wish to withhold. He will never come to know the truth until the relationship is wired. You can portray yourself completely distinct and obviously in a more fascinating way and gift yourself your dream relationship.

The problem arises when the relationship becomes serious. And you forget the person on the other side can also be deceitful. You start expecting while the other person is still having fun. Then your heart breaks and lands you up again in the same traumatic situation which forced you to engage in an online dating process. And the vicious cycle goes on.

Online dating is not harmful, if performed under certain margins. Let it be just a time pass which helps you unwind from daily tensions.

And when it comes to a serious relationship, love of your life will see you in the real world.

Till then, have some fun with your virtual dating partner.

WHAT A GIRL'S HEART WANTS?

A girl’s heart is sensitive and complex yet simple to understand and undemanding when it comes to please her. Even petite endeavours can make her feel ecstatic and cheerful. All she wants is a humble courteous guy who cares for her and loves her.

Although it’s an effortless task to flatter a girl, but still guys are always confused and vexed about it. So this is a small attempt to abridge this dilemma of boys.

Every girl grows up with an image of her perfect dream boy in her eyes and when she sees even a glimpse of that impression in somebody, she is flattered and her heart slips off from her hand. There are numerous minute things that can be done to entice her. A small rose can make her heart pound with exhilaration. As it is said, a girl can spend her entire day shopping, so she finds it really thoughtful of a guy who goes out with her to accompany her in her favourite task. Gifting her presents time to time makes her feel elite and she starts believing that the guy is genuine and is considerate about her. Obviously you cannot forget the feelings; anything materialistic cannot supersede the care and love you shower on her. Most eminent factor for her is that her partner spends time with her and she could talk her heart out with him. She also loves the most romantic things imaginable in this world. Proposing her in the most quixotic way and spending the most extraordinary holidays with her and treating her like a princess makes her heart skip a beat and she surrenders herself to you.

Always remember,

To love is nothing, to be loved is something;

To love and be loved is everything.

Make her fall in love with you.

THIS IS LIFE

We enter the world alone,

And sadly leave it too alone.

What we earn in life is up to us,

Being joyful or sadistic is in our hands thus.

Though in life, we have to choose,

Life cannot be always a chocolate mousse.

We are faced with certain situations,

Good and evil are life’s combinations.

Sometimes the one who is close to your heart,

Hurts you badly and tears you apart.

Sometimes the one who was never a friend,

Supports you, walks along and hold your hand.

When you are happy, ready to go,

Life takes a halt and takes you low.

When you are gloomy, feeling dark,

Enters the hero, leaving his mark.

Then you fall in love, dreaming about future,

You are abandoned, left to torture.

You learn to get over with, standing once again,

And then you realise, it was of no gain.

People come and people go, it after all depends on you,

Trust, love and care for, you should know who is who.

IS IT NECESSARY

Why do we get so close to somebody,

That he hurts us like nobody.

Why do we not ask ourselves, isn’t it easy,

Then why do we let ourselves to the extent of crazy.

Isn’t this bound to happen someday,

The ones whom we trust will break it one or the other day.

Then the heart will be broken into pieces,

And the soul inside us freezes.

We give the power to a person,

Though it may be in a different version.

Maybe it’s not always our love, it can be friends,

The one who hurts is not always the one who mends.

We are then left alone to lick our wounds,

It’s not always like a new moon.

He is the one who shatters our heart,

Who is our life’s best part.

We wish we hadn’t done it again,

But we do it over and feel that pain.